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What does Culture Shock Mean to You?:
Thoughts On Culture Shock - Presentation Transcript
- What does “culture shock” mean to you?
Thoughts on ‘culture shock’ and
‘natural life transitions’.
- What does culture shock mean to you?
I think culture shock means different things to different people.
And, that is OK! We all experience life differently, so this is
natural. Some of us may refuse to call it ‘culture shock’ because it is
just ‘a part of life’. Some of us may not like the term ‘culture
shock,’ because as with any life transition- moving to another city or
country is just ‘par for the course’ and we would naturally face some
challenges in adapting to any new environment.
- Some of us may further argue that even if we never moved from our
village or town or city, we would face ‘culture shock’ but not really
call it that as culture shock is generally thought of as happening when
moving to another place altogether.
However, as we move through
life- from childhood to adulthood, from being single, to being married,
to being a parent, to being a career-oriented person, to being retired,
to being an in-law, to being retired, widowed and the multitude of
other roles we play in our life- moving through all roles is a life
transition.
Photo credit: Ski Tripper @flickr
- Each life role has a ‘culture’ associated with it- a set of rules, a lifestyle, a way of behaving that we have to adjust to.
Hence,
transitioning through the roles of life while moving abroad, moving to
another city, or staying planted in one place one’s whole life can
still be considered cultural change- and bring about the same ups and
downs that ‘culture shock’ can.
Photo credit: David Boyle @flickr
- This is why, I have always believed that culture shock doesn’t end.
Many articles out there on culture shock present a bell curve, with a
start point and an end point. As though once you finish the bell curve,
you understand all you need to know about a culture, then it’s all
smooth sailing from there and you won’t face any challenges henceforth.
Us Westerners are comfortable with linear thinking, but Easterners
often understand more circular logic. This is what I am trying to
present here.
I believe culture shock can happen whether we move
abroad or stay in our own country- but happens as we experience natural
life transitions. And in experiencing both transitions and ‘culture
shock’ the stages of adaptation are very similar in my experience.
- Questions to reflect on:
What are the roles you have played in your life?
How has the transition between roles affected you?
Do
you think your roles would be experienced differently if you lived in
your ‘hometown’ your whole life as compared to moving to another city
or country?
What are some challenges you have faced in transitioning to roles in your life?
Do you attribute them to life’s “natural course” or “culture shock” or both, or something else?
What are your thoughts? I am happy to hear about your experiences.
I am happy to meet with you to discuss and sort out your experiences.
Thanks for reading.
- Eager
to hear your thoughts, experiences and questions -jenkumar@gmail.com.
Would you like to participate in cross-cultural or life transitions
mentoring? Are you adjusting to new roles in life and want some
guidance? I can help you assess where you are, where you want to be and
help you create and achieve goals to help you achieve the life you
want!
Authentic Journeys
Cultural and Lifestyle Coaching and Mentoring
Jennifer
Kumar, P.O. Box 284, Pittsford, New York 14534
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Jennifer Kumar, Cultural Adjustment Coach and Mentor by e-mail.
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